The Dangers of Attention-Seeking: When "Pick Me" Mentality Fuels Racism After Tragedy
- Tammy Wheeler Gilcrease
- 21 hours ago
- 5 min read
Let’s talk about this woman that chose to go on TikTok & spew verbal diarrhea while showing the entire world what a horrible individual she truly is, shall we?
All she accomplished was creating chaos! She made no statement! She expressed nothing relevant! She simply displayed her very lack of moral integrity, among other things. Anyone who thinks she did not know, for a single second, that this would cause a significant uproar, then enjoy your ignorance. She is simply, what is now referred to as a "pick me" female! She used hateful tactics in some kind of desperate need for her own personal relevance. It is a waste of time to entertain arguing with her, but I can fully understand so many people being frustrated & appalled by her point of view & or opinion; however, speaking rationally to an irrational individual rarely accomplishes much of anything. I, myself debated on acknowledging her spew of unsolicited & unprovoked verbiage. Each time someone does it just makes her name a little more known. The public gave a bitter & irrelevant individual recognition & made her hatred & ignorance relevant in the form of a misguided "advocate". I find the most shocking factor in all of it to be that this mentally competent grown woman, consciously chose THIS tragic incident, that involves INNOCENT children losing their lives due to a NATURAL disaster, only to make it a topic of public controversy as though anyone had any control over what happened. Now the public is continuing to entertain it, providing her an opportunity to spew even more idiocy with each comment & or reply & for what? Seems to me only to be providing even more proof that ignorance is truly bliss! Allow me to state the obvious, this tragedy had NOTHING to do with politics, politicians, political affiliation & or racial injustice! To correlate political affiliation & or race/ethnicity is a very desperate reach at relevance & attention! Those who are so proud to display their own ugliness as to clout chase, running behind her viral ignorance, are even more disgusting than she is. Just how miserable of a human being are all these people? Someone should enlighten the peanut gallery that any credibility & or validity they may have had or would have found, lost all momentum when an implication that a group of children deserved any of it. Surely her & those chasing her clout of ignorance grasp that there are still several children who have yet to even be found. There is an infinite number of possibilities as to "why" this woman chose to spew such hateful verbal vomit, but it doesn't matter at this point! Considering the multitude of words within the English language available to properly communicate & express oneself, she truly has made herself look horrendous & unintelligent. Those attempting to justify her disgusting behavior STILL, are adding fuel to a flame that would have fizzled out long ago & like their miserable ringleader, are accomplishing nothing. There is NO JUSTIFICATION for BAD BEHAVIOR of this nature, despite what she or anyone may claim! This ridiculous level of audacity accomplished little to nothing. Allow me to state what has been accomplished thus far: irreversible negative consequences for her life & her livelihood. This additional chaos she created will likely endanger not only her life but will also negatively impact those in her direct orbit as well! The very clear & obvious implication that she continually has made that INNOCENT children deserved to die is the epitome of disgusting, to say the least! Even holding on to & standing firm in the unsubstantiated assumption that the camp was racially bias & or racially unjust, what do those children have to do with that? As though they are to be blamed for what could POSSIBLY be the ways of the adults in their life! In one of her comments, within the same sentence, she refers to children who lost their lives as “little cunts”, then simultaneously states that it was “God's Plan” to “take them out”! SAY WHAT NOW! I have heard others be labeled as a “Karen” for MUCH less. All the contradicting hypocrisy may be screaming the loudest of all in her every word! NO ONE CAN PROCLAIM TO ADVOCATE FOR CIVIL RIGHTS & OR EQUAL RIGHTS while simultaneously displaying the precise behavior she claims to be advocating AGAINST! She is displaying hatred while complaining about other displaying hatred! Hate will always promote MORE hate! There are SO VERY MANY actual issues involving racial discrimination that this kind of recognition truly deserves & that holds an actual possibility in making a difference & or creating a positive impact when & if addressed. It would seem she doesn't want change! SHE WANTS ATTENTION! She seeks self-validation! SHE IS MAKING NOISE NOT MAKING CHANGE! Stop talking about it & be about it! This was just mediocracy & simply choosing a path of least resistance, which often will involve assumptive information without substantiation & all concluded from an emotionally reactive individual seeking company in her misery. My favorite part is when she bragged about her criminal past & the felony charges she was convicted of. Was that supposed to be intimidating? I just felt pity for her lack of good sense as to brag on social media & indicate a threat to the COUNTLESS people running their mouths in the same & or similar way she has only on the opposing side of it. Wonder if she had that same energy when she appeared before a judge about her conviction? I am curious if she was just as eager to proclaim her guilt then, as though it were a badge of honor. Sweetheart, if you must convince the world, you are some bad ass, then more than likely, you are no bad ass! She is angry & or disgruntled at those in her comment thread that are matching her energy & for what? She had to know what was coming! If this is true of the camp, all this attention is being misdirected rather than focusing on what matters. Instead, just threw what appeared to be a temper tantrum rant of self-entitlement. If that were the facts about that camp, would you WANT your child or a loved one's child to go there?! Would this be less tragic if little girls of other races & or ethnicities had also been killed & or still missing? I would absolutely love to have her make that make sense. Isn't the new era & way of life to MATCH others energy? Seems she dished it out easily enough, but is now big mad, struggling with being talked to the same or similar way. What was best case scenario moron? There was no other possibility in running her mouth than what is happening. There is absolutely no win here I refuse to lower my energy & or vibe to that pathetic level, but to each their own! Effective change isn't accomplished in this type of behavior! She is a shining example of those that she claims to be angry with. No one can demand better, expecting anything to change, without leading by example! Seems more & more that this is the world we live in though! Easier to be stupid using ignorance as an excuse while talking about it but never bothering to appropriately really be about it. If resolution is never attempted, nothing changes! So..... round & round we go, just spinning in circles self-destructing! If you want better, DO BETTER to be better, otherwise sit down & shut up if your words hold no weight.
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